5 signs you should hire an attorney for your divorce

Getting a divorce can be a scary and costly endeavor. If you have children, assets, or any other points of dispute in your impending divorce, there is little doubt that you are going to need a divorce attorney.

In the Internet age, there are a lot of people who try to DIY every aspect of life. Whether it’s a car detail, home renovation, or yes, even a divorce. But this is a tricky – albeit incredibly common area of law – and you need to be prepared for anything that may come your way. 

Individuals who try to do their own divorces very often run into unforeseen issues and complications. Regularly, they end up regretting their decision or having to hire a lawyer in the end. 

So, if you are weighing your options, here are signs that you should consult an attorney. 

1. You see a child custody dispute coming. Having kids obviously changes your life forever, and that includes the way you approach your divorce. When you have kids, the stakes for your divorce can get incredibly high. Unfortunately, couples often end up fighting horribly over custody. While it is true that some couples are able to remain quite amicable during a divorce, it is not the norm. 
2. If you and your spouse have more than a few thousand dollars in assets, especially if there is a home that you both own, it is incredibly wise to get an attorney who can help you figure out how to fairly split assets. If your ex-spouse has a lawyer and you do not, you may very well lose everything. 
3.  If you and your spouse own a business together, the divorce can get quite complicated indeed. Luckily, an attorney will know how to navigate these issues and confusing details to help you either split the company, dissolve it for assets, or figure out a way how to continue running it together despite the divorce, though that final option is admittedly exceedingly rare. 
4. Another reason to get a divorce lawyer is if you experienced domestic violence or abuse during the course of your marriage. The emotional aspect that is present when one spouse intimidates or scares the other can make it impossible for the divorce to be figured out on equal ground. A lawyer can help offer you the strength and confidence you need to deal with your ex if they were abusive towards you or your children during the course of your marriage. 
5. If you are a generally disorganized person, hiring a lawyer can really help you stay on track when it comes to hitting meaningful benchmarks in preparing for your divorce. A divorce requires lots of paperwork, especially if you are working through complex financial documentation. If you are worried about being able to stay on top of your legal documents, manage work, and more, you will absolutely benefit from hiring a lawyer who you can simply pay to stay on top of all you need to stay on top of!